1. Keep secrets
This is a common phenomenon that many people date transgender women or men and just keep them as secrets. The real story from one of my transgender friends. She is in a love relationship with a man for several months, both of them are claim to have a life time relationship with each other. However, her boyfriend never date her in public places, she thought it was a way to protect her at first. When asked him to introduce her to his families and friends, he was in silence. She is not sure is it true love, and asks me for advice. I cannot easily make a conclusion on whether it is true love, but I suggest you to think twice before dating this kind of man, especially if you are looking for a long term relationship. If a man never introduce you to his friends, or date you in public places, it means he just want to keep you as a secret, he cannot accept trans dating in his deep heart.
2. Respect
Respect is the basis of all relationships, and it is also the start of true love. If you are a transgender person, make sure your date partner is respect you as who you are. More importantly, as a transgender person, you should tell your partner who you are before meeting each other. Never force yourself to date someone who cannot accept transgender people and transgender dating. If someone cannot respect you when he knows you are a transgender person, leave him away, he can never become your true love.
3. Share something
When we are in a love relationship, we are willing to share everything about ourselves with our boyfriends or girlfriends. This is different from ts dating and trans relationship in some degrees. Men guys just date transgender women for fun, and never share something about themselves with their dating partners. If you are a transgender women who are looking for a serious love relationship, this kind of man can never be your target. In some occasions, the trans woman is willing to share her life story with the man she date with to show her sincerity, but the man seems not very interested in the her story. No matter what are you dating for, you should know that be a good listener in trans dating is the key to dating success.
4. Honesty
How to know if it's your true love? First, you should know whether he is honest to you. Honesty is mutual trust in a relationship. If you meet someone who always lie to you, is it your true love? Of course no. As a transgender person, you should tell other people who you are at first. If you want to respect and trust by other people, please respect and trust other people in advance. You can not control the feeling and thought of other people, but as a transgender people, you can try your best to change other people's opinions on transgender people and trans dating.