How to get on with your partner in a relationship? Will you change yourself in a relationship? These two questions should be answered before fall in love with someone.
We all know it is hard for transgender women to meet someone who can really accept them and have a long term relationship, in order to find a dating partner, many transgender women change themselves to meet other people's needs. I don't think it is wise to do that. Everyone is equal in a relationship, you don't need to bow down and prove yourself worthy to the man you date. I just want to share my experience with all transgender women here.
I'm a transgender woman, and I used to lose myself in the past relationships. I met my ex-boyfriend through a grindr trans app - transdr. It is really a great dating app for transgender people to find dating partners. After joining this ts dating app for two weeks, a handsome man cached my eyes. I sent roses to him everyday, luckily, he replied me the next day, we had a successful match. We kept in touch in the next two weeks, and that was the happiest thing to chat with him online everyday. I was always wondering if I can tell him that I'm a transgender woman. After several days of thinking, I decided to tell him the truth. It was really surprised me that he never mind I'm a transgender woman, so we start to dating in real life. In order to show my gratitude to him, I was willing to do everything for him. I gave him everything he wants, and that sounds hard to understand now. At first, I was very happy to do everything for him, but as time goes by, I felt that I did a lot for him, but he did nothing for the relationship. In the relationship with him, I felt that we were not equal, I was always giving. I was so tired in such a relationship, so two moth later, I said goodbye o him.
I know from that relationship, If you are always giving without return, the relationship will not go for a long time. That is a big mistake I made, so I want to share my experience with all transgender women and that can be helpful in trans relationships.
Before dating someone online, setting your limitations, since online shemale dating is never easy to deal with. It is okay to change yourself to maintain a relationship, but never lose yourself. You can become a better one, but never change to the one who is strange to yourself. Once in a relationship, both you and your partner should try to maintain this relationship. It is a two-side relationship, no one can control it or be the boss of a relationship. A life time relationship should be equal and healthy, never start a wrong relationship with the wrong person no matter who you are. I hope all transgender people can meet a perfect dating partner online.